Hello all and happy Sunday! I am bringing a well requested blog post today after all my ‘wardrobe edit’ pics and stories on Instagram. I had an amazing time during my wardrobe edit last month and have learnt so many useful tips for shopping and styling within my own wardrobe. In this blog post I am going to share with you why I chose to have a wardrobe edit, what it involved and the skills I learnt from it afterwards. I had my edit with Elise from Redefined Styling, who I had already had a colour and body shape consultation with and loved. I have shared about this experience in its own blog, which you can read here.
The decision to book in for a wardrobe edit stemmed from my initial service with Elise, as I could instantly tell how knowledgeable she is, and I gained a lot from the short hour that we spent together. A wardrobe edit is much more detailed than my previous colours service, where Elise came to my home and helped me to cleanse my wardrobe and style outfits using the tools I already had. As this was in August, we focused mainly on transitional styling that would help me going into Autumn and beyond, as I knew already that I would book in with Elise for a separate Winter edit. The beauty of this service is that not only do you have a proper sort and clear out of your wardrobe, but Elise also shows you what options you have to work with that I had never seen before. We analysed all the items in my wardrobe to make them work again, to resist having to completely rebuy a wardrobe each season. Elise showed me the key pieces I was missing in my wardrobe to bring everything together too which was so helpful. This session totally re-inspired me and motivated me to love my wardrobe again and has also totally changed my mindset and attitude towards how I shop.
During the session we took each section of my wardrobe out, category at a time, starting with long dresses to short, skirts and then tops. We went through each and every item, ruthlessly throwing things out and styling the ones we kept with the rest of my wardrobe. I am a rare Summer palette in terms of colour, so a key part of styling for me is bringing out those beautiful pastel colours in each look, even if the item only has extremely small details of these colour waves. For each outfit we then wrote what was missing for me and gradually found a pattern with this, such as a cropped denim jacket to go with pretty much everything and some more transitional lighter coloured boots with a point.
I absolutely loved the feeling afterwards of being totally in love with my wardrobe again, almost like seeing it with a fresh pair of eyes. It has given me such a confidence boost and also enabled me to be much more conscious of shopping sustainably and correctly which was already a change I wanted to make, without knowing necessarily how to before. I would recommend this service to anyone, as often it could be something that you have never considered before, but it really can totally transform the wardrobe you already own and your attitude towards how you feel wearing your own clothes.
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Hello everyone and welcome to a new blog. It feels like such a long time since I have sat down to write a blog post, or even had something that I feel really passionate about and want to write. My mindset has been so all over the place over recent months, as everyone else’s has, just with the constant uncertainty and lack of routine. I have found it really hard to focus on specific things and just keep anything constant… however this week is the first that I feel like I am starting to get my mojo back and fit into some sort of new routine. A lot of this is down to a new habit of mine, which is something I started properly around two months ago. I started doing something called a miracle morning after reading a book called ‘the 5am club’. Now, I don’t get up at 5… but I still carry out the principles of the book and make it work for me. Each day, at 7.30am which is the time that works for me physically and also still means I am working by 9, I give myself an hour of me time. In this time, I practice gratitude, affirmations, visualisation, reading and listen to a great audio. I am absolutely loving it and its results, with the biggest one being how much more positive I am feeling.
I am going to dedicate a whole blog post to the miracle morning as it definitely deserves one, so I thought I would just do an initial post all about positivity and how having a much more positive mindset has impacted me recently. With being in the fifth month of the pandemic here in the UK, I have really noticed so many people in my life suffering mentally, and also people I don’t know so well but have spoken to. I am hoping with this blog post that I can inspire lots of people to practice a few small things daily to experience what I have experienced and start to feel a lot better mentally, despite the chaos of the world.
So, the first thing to understand is that this whole principle is based on mindset and our mindset should be the biggest priority we have to work on day to day as it determines pretty much everything in our lives! If you always see the good in things, your day will be full of good, but if you see the bad, I guarantee you will see bad things all damn day. So, my first piece of advice is gratitude. If you live in a constant state of gratitude and choose to see the good…. The good will flow. In order to start small and be realistic about this, my advice is to pop a notebook by your bed. Each night before you sleep, literally the last thing you do, write down five things that you are grateful for that day. The key to this is to make it specific, so by this I mean do not write: my home, my car, my partner, my job, my phone. It needs to be specific, so mine last night would have been: the delicious vanilla coffee I made in the morning, completing a task I had been putting off for weeks, the beautiful flowers my partner bought me, the delicious meal I had with friends and the cooler weather making it more bearable to sleep! In theory, these five things should be different each day and what you will notice start to happen is you will begin to notice these throughout your days and naturally see the good.
The next one that I want to mention is your physical being. Naturally when we feel tired and sluggish it is much harder to feel positive and we frankly don’t feel good. So my biggest points here are going to be selfcare which includes eating your healthy foods each day (even if you eat junk too); giving yourself enough sleep time; drinking plenty of water; short meditations in your day and a form of exercise each day, even if you run up and down the stairs 3 times first things in the morning or a short walk. Keeping our bodies healthy and active is a huge part of being positive as we all now know; everything starts from within.
This next point could possibly be the one I am most passionate about as it is the biggest change I have made, and I do personally think it has had a huge impact on my positivity levels. You need to break up with the news, gossip and celebrity culture, trashy tv and magazines and most importantly other people in your life who drain your soul as all these things do. Unless you are willing to stop consuming the crap put into our minds by all these things, you are always going to struggle to have a positive mindset as it is being constantly replaced by factors that let’s be honest… aren’t even bloody real! I know it’s hard, but it’s time.
Book recommendations for a positive mindset:
Oprah Winfrey – What I Know for Sure
The 5am Club – Robin Sharma
The Goddess Revolution – Mel Wells
Shop this post:
Dress – H&M
Shoes – New Look
Bag – H&M
I have not been paid to feature any brands, and all views and opinions are my own.
Hello beautiful readers. I hope you are all well and staying safe. I have enjoyed a few weeks off from blogging, purely because I just needed some time away from my screens and also to find some inspiration to bring better content that is going to serve you, rather than just throwing something together. I have personally found the last few weeks pretty tough mentally, which after speaking to a lot of people, I know I am not alone in feeling. The last few months have been a total physical, mental and emotional rollercoaster for EVERYONE with this crazy time we are enduring. Little piece of advice here… if you are feeling like this… take some time away from social media and get back to nature a little more. Trust me, it will do you the world of good. Now I have done this, I am starting to feel so much better and have found my inspiration again and feel totally motivated to get going a little more and basically get on with life, albeit a tad differently.
I think a lot of changes have happened in so many of our lives recently and we have had the biggest mindset shift of our lives, mainly down to a global pandemic, where for the first time everyone has been experiencing the same hardship at the same time. I have learnt so many things from the pandemic and being in lockdown, which I am going to put in its own blog post, however the main one is about the souls in my life and the tribe I choose to be around. I heard this amazing quote on one of my business trainings last week and it was very much a right time right place moment as it was exactly what I needed to hear!
YOUR VIBE ATTRACTS YOUR TRIBE
One of the biggest lessons I have learnt in the last few months is the importance of the amazing people I have in my life and the value of what they bring, as well as of course what I can do for them. My family has always been my number one priority, but the extent to which this is true has been heightened incredibly throughout this process as well as the importance of the friends I have in my life. I have been doing a lot of work on my mindset and my personal thoughts throughout the lockdown and have already noticed how much it is having a positive impact on me. I bounce back from sad moments so much more quickly, always try to see the positives in not so positive situations and most importantly, have noticed how much less I sweat the small stuff and just simply get the f*** on with life. A big part of this is surrounding yourself with likeminded people who want to be in your life and mirror your thoughts and actions. I’m going be brutally honest, life is too short to spend time with people who bring you down. So, I wanted to pop a few pointers all into this blog post to inspire and encourage you to evaluate your relationships and the potential toll they could be taking on you. I am going to sum up a few key pointers here to get you thinking.
Each relationship you have in your life should be an addition and they should all add up to contribute to your wonderful soul. For example, your life should not revolve around a romantic relationship, nor should having one good friendship close you to exploring friendships with others.
Relationships and your tribe should always be there for you in a healthy and balanced way. I saw a quote recently on Facebook saying, ‘you know who your real friends are by who has been there for you at this time’. Now, this is not necessarily true, however it is not untrue. We have all had shit to deal with and I don’t agree that stressing ourselves out right now being there for everyone is what should be happening, but what is important is that if you have a real problem and need a friend, they are there for you. All relationships are about balance.
For me this is a big one, a real friendship is defined when you don’t speak or see each other for weeks/ months and when you do, you would have no idea!! So many of my friends and I have now started to see each other, and you would have no idea it had been so long!
Don’t be afraid to let go. The biggest lesson I have learnt over the last few weeks is that sometimes, every part of your soul needs you to just let go. If someone is draining you, and is simply difficult to have a relationship with, it is sometimes the healthiest thing to let the relationship go. This could be simply distancing yourself a little more or even a complete cut off.
Finally, being yourself is key. Growing and developing as a human being is obviously important and the relationships, we have in our lives definitely help to shape this, although being you is still your number one priority. Always be true to yourself and if you feel like you aren’t being you in any relationship, you know it simply isn’t right.
I would love to know if anyone else has been experiencing the same thoughts as me in lockdown and even has noticed the same huge mindset shift? Send me a DM on Insta and we can chat! >> @ladyhunterblog
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Dress – H&M
Shoes – New Look
Bag – Mulberry
I have not been paid to feature any brands and all views and opinions are my own.
Side hustle = a piece of work or a job that you get paid for doing in addition to doing your main job.
Today’s blog post is all about a side hustle. I have wanted to do this for a few weeks, as it is a topic that I have been thinking a lot about during the pandemic. In addition to my full-time job and law studies, I also have my own side hustle which I started back in August, which has been a welcome distraction during this time. The industry I am in as a whole has popped over the last few months, as I think a lot of people are starting to understand the importance of always having a back-up plan in life. I am extremely grateful to have my very own back-up plan; however, I also love that it is something I do by choice, that I get to have a lot of fun with and be a part of an amazing community. For me, I guess you could also say that blogging is a sort of side hustle, however it feels very different as I do it totally alone with no one to guide me.
So, the first question I think that always comes to light on this subject is ‘why do so many people explore the option of a side hustle’? For me, it was all about giving myself options and securing myself for the future. I absolutely love my job, and my studies, but how on earth do I know that it 10 years’ time my job is going to exist, not to mention that I might actually hate it. The world is constantly changing and as humans our dreams and desires constantly evolve, so for me a side hustle was an option I wanted to explore in case either of the two ever happen in the future. A rich life is about so much more than finances – it is about true happiness and fulfilment each day which comes from spending time with loved ones and never overly stressing about life. If you are getting what I mean, I would definitely recommend reading on.
Next up, ‘what is meant by a side hustle’. So, this can come in many different varieties, but essentially it is going to be something that you do on the side of your time, that you make some extra money from, have fun with and perhaps one day could become a full-time thing. For me, I made the sensible decision of joining a social marketing company, where I have my own business underneath their umbrella. I get all the help and support I need, as well as the community, without the everyday stresses of building a company and the time that you would need to put into it. That was a choice I made as I fell in love with the brand, however there are many other varieties. You love photography? You may start a side hustle running your own photography business in your spare time. You love writing? You may start freelance writing for your local magazine on the side. You love makeup? You could start a makeup artist business to run at the weekends or during Summer for weddings. These are all side hustles as they are done around your life and main job, but create an income, however big or small.
I have so many people I speak to who voice their dreams and passions to me, yet never explore the option of a side hustle for one reason… time. Now, yes I agree, we all have busy lives and a lot of us do not have time to spare, however, there is one thing I always say when someone says I don’t have time – ‘do you not have time, or is it just not a priority right now?’ So often, when you chat further and explore what everyone gets up to each day, you learn that they do spend around 1-2 hours a day scrolling through Instagram, often sleep for longer than they need and probably spend around 2-3 hours each evening watching TV. I am not saying that we don’t need down time because we do, however I know so many people who could just switch some of their daily habits and build an epic side hustle by simply giving up the daily scroll or watching EastEnders and Coronation Street. That may seem blunt, and you may think I am absolutely incorrect, but if you ask yourself deep down, you always can make time. Each week I run my full-time business, study my online law degree and do my side hustle. It isn’t easy, but the way I do it is by simply giving up time in my life that wasn’t serving me before and utilising it to build and grow my businesses and myself. To add, when I do have my down time, the quality is so much better as it is less frequent, more structured and often much more enjoyable. So, ask yourself… could you spare an hour a day to make your dreams come true?
Finally, let’s talk getting uncomfortable. Any side hustle you start is going to require you to acquire the knowledge you need to make it work, the dedication and self-discipline to keep it going and the courage to make it a success. To put it bluntly, you are going to have to get uncomfortable. But, like they say, if nothing changes… nothing changes – being uncomfortable is when you grow and become the person you want to be. So, when you do start your side hustle, my biggest piece of advice is do not give up on it. If you work hard enough, if you are disciplined and if you have belief in yourself, you can make ANYTHING happen.
One of my favourite things about the recent lockdown has been having the opportunity to really sort through my wardrobe, find my style again and fill in gaps properly as opposed to buying items aimlessly not knowing what I really need. The Spring styles available this year have been incredible and my personal style exactly. I adore the pastel shades flooding the online stores, beautiful floral patterns, flouncy skirts and sleeves, not to mention gorgeous accessories. The colour palettes are so feminine, and I have loved filling my wardrobe with new life, colour and textures.
That being said, a big lesson I have learnt is that as much as these styles are beautiful, they are definitely not made for every single body shape, nor season colour palette. I have seen so many items and then tried them, only to be disappointed with how they look, which is a battle I have 365 days a year. Although, I am very much into adapting fashion and making it work for me, so this season I have worked harder than usual to force these trends to work on me. H&M has been my biggest go to this year. In my opinion, they are miles ahead with their Spring line compared to other high street stores and I cannot fault them for their quality and movement towards being a more sustainable fashion brand.
Again, because of my hourglass figure, the second part of my outfit to make it work for me is a chunky heel, whether it be wedges or a block heeled sandal. This added height and length to my legs is crucial to make the dress work for me as with flats they can look a little frumpy. My favourite place for good summer sandals and wedges has to include Dune, New Look and my latest love is Castaner, an incredible espadrille company who make sustainable espadrilles and wedges.
In terms of accessories and jewellery, I think the minimalist look is the trend of 2020, with dainty earrings, necklaces and bracelets taking a stand and further promoting the dainty feminine look that this dress is offering. I collected a few gorgeous jewellery pieces last year with this ethos in mind, as I fell in love with so many lovely items from Mint Velvet and even an incredible selection from Asos. I am all about reasonably priced jewellery as what I like changes frequently and you can get some truly beautiful pieces nowadays for a better price point. So, in essence, the flouncy frilly dresses are in and I am loving it.
Happy Sunday and welcome to my second instalment of the #bossbabes series. To recap, this is a new series I am introducing to the blog, to shine the light on some incredible women I have had the pleasure of getting to know in my life who are extremely talented and #bossing their industry. Today is for the wonderful Sian Gissing-McMeel, the talented founder of Gissings Boutique and my now friend. Sian and I met through an existing client at the beginning of last year, landed up speaking business and now I have the pleasure of working with her and witnessing her incredible brand grow. Not only is she an amazing entrepreneur, but she also juggles motherhood, being a wife, studying a law degree and being a support system for many other women in her Goddess tribe. She is such an inspiration and it was without question that I needed to feature her in this series.
So, let’s take it back a little. Sian’s background is in the pageant world, learning all the tips and tricks that she is now able to use in her wonderful brand and to empower other women. For several years, Sian juggled, and I mean juggled hard. She was a single mummy to her beautiful daughter Freya, beginning her law degree and providing legal aid for those in need whilst also working to provide for her and her daughter. In this time Sian developed a real understanding of how she wanted her brand to be shaped and how she wanted to use it to help women and bring out their inner goddess glamour.
Times have now changed a little, the brand has truly flourished and the movement has continued on. Sian is now happily married, with a beautiful baby boy, stepson and a new baby on the way. She is still pursuing her law degree and has created her platform to help women bring out their inner goddess. Gissings Boutique is a beautiful boutique in the heart of Clifton Village, with an online store too. The whole ethos of the brand is to provide a luxury and personal service to all clients, which is about so much more than just purchasing a dress. Women are taken on an experience, to enjoy a glass of bubbles, utilise Sian’s knowledge of glamour and find a dress that most of the time, they had no idea would be the right one for them.
I too have gotten to experience this VIP service and I was in absolute heaven. A full few hours of trying on countless dresses and spinning like a princess, getting giddy on pink bubbles and indulging in all the glamour tips I could ever need to release my own inner goddess. Something I knew the minute I stepped through the boutique door is that there really is nowhere at all like this. For gowns in the UK you have two options, Debenhams or some other department store or those dodgy websites where the dress that gets delivered is the complete opposite to the picture. Not a fun experience, which I can say from experience. When we are shopping, why shouldn’t we enjoy ourselves and have a better experience than most of the high street has to offer? Whether it be for a prom dress, cruise gown, bridesmaid dresses or any other glamorous occasion, this is where you need to be.
Sian works by appointment so she can dedicate all her energy to each client at a time, ensuring you get the right look for yourself and she can help you as thoroughly as possible. For those who can’t make it into Bristol, Sian is happy to help in any way possible with online purchases, again to ensure you get the right gown for you. The experience is all about becoming a Goddess, which really is a feeling all us women need! Please use the contact form below if you would like some more information. All Sian’s details can also be found below. Sian and I have also shared a Q&A over on Instagram… again the details are below.
Welcome to my blog, Lady Hunter. I started this blog in May 2014 and have used it as a space to share my experiences and extreme passion for everything in life. I am a keen cook, fashion lover and marketing manager living in Bristol and also have a lust for travelling and trying out new experiences in life… read more